Addicted to control

Why does our natural curiosity mostly end up in need to control? We start digging into something thinking huh how does that happen? what is that? what causes or controls it? And soon once we begin to find the knobs and can put a rough scale on it. We begin to want to change it or control it, cause we think we can do it better, it needs to be more stable. When in reality the variability was natural to begin with and that variability is its nature so to speak. But no, we have to put tighter limits on it and get frustrated and stressed about controlling it. This could be a property of some material or some measurement like an EKG signal related to sleeping. Why cant we ever watch without the need to control? Remind you of something...similar to our minds isnt it. We want to control our emotions, we can never be a silent observer of our own feelings and let it be, we have to react. Same pattern repeats everywhere. Interesting.....!